This is actually one of the common causes of a broken family. When your husband is cheating on you, it really makes you feel stabbed in your heart. It is really painful that seeing him will just make you miserable. And if ever that you decide to stay with him, the trust issue will always be there and a harmonious relationship with him will never go on.
In this day and age, pre-marital sex is not anymore an issue to some people. Especially, today’s young people are liberal in this kind of matter. This is the reason why there is a rise in teen pregnancy. Of course, the first thing that the parents will be thinking is for their son and daughter to get married. They are trying to make things right through marriage. They don’t know that this will just make things worse. Forcing these young people to get married without their readiness to handle the toxicity of “married life” will just make it one of the useless and dreadful things to do.
If ever your young daughter gets pregnant, keep her first in your hands until they are both ready to face the married life. It doesn’t mean that you are neglecting the fact that they love each other and they want to be with each other. It’s okay, let them see each other and make the father of the baby share his responsibility. Just make sure that they can’t be together in one roof and they can’t do the same mistake again.
Some married couple can take long distance relationship but most of them cannot handle such relationship. Imagine your husband is working abroad and you have to stay with your children. He might feel so lonely there and look for another woman’s affection. It is really hard when you are in a place where in you have no one to talk to or to be with. You need a lot of trust and self control to keep your marriage in this kind of set up.